The Workplace Evidence Gathering Kit Is Essential In this article, I’m going to discuss how to structure a complaint to HR using the Workplace Evidence Gathering Kit. This is an area that most complainants make predictable but avoidable mistakes. Most companies are in business to make a profit. The role of HR within that business […]
Continue readingClosure After Workplace Bullying By Janice Gilligan White (Guest Blogger) Closure after workplace bullying; it’s what every target desperately searches for. The elusive treasure chest filled with peace. If not found, we risk our health. We can lose our connection to people and our ability to find fulfilling work. We can find ourselves stuck in […]
Continue readingIs It Time For You To Escape Workplace Bullying? Empathic, compassionate professionals typically most need to escape workplace bullying. Their competence, popularity and success pose a serious threat to the insecure tyrants who target them. Does that sound like you? If someone wants you gone, it only takes one employer to fire you. It also […]
Continue readingHow I Survived Workplace Mobbing In AviationBy Janice Gilligan White (Guest Blogger)*I love the song, “I’m a Survivor” by Destiny’s Child (2001). It’s especially moving for survivors of workplace mobbing.There’s something so powerful about it. From the first sound of that helicopter barreling towards the shoreline to that chorus where they fiercely claim victory over […]
Continue readingWhat Is Ambush Firing? Large corporations have a strategy to get rid of you once they’ve bullied you at work called “ambush firing.” It’s transparent to anyone who cares to look, but the company would rather keep it a secret. The Strategy What happens first is bullying of the target. It usually takes several months for the person […]
Continue readingEmpath: Normal Or Paranormal? The term Empath usually describes someone with a paranormal level of emotional sensitivity. This makes it painful to live in the world. Google: “Signs you’re an empath” and you’ll get 905,000 results with “listicles” ranging from three to 50 items. They describe traits such as: “feeling others’ feelings,” “being overwhelmed by others’ negativity,” […]
Continue readingLately, a question my readers have been asking A LOT is, “how do I deal with the asshole at work?” especially since these people are demanding, draining and difficult. This question has inspired me to create a book recommendation video and article of Robert Sutton’s brilliant and highly readable new release: “The Asshole Survival Guide: […]
Continue readingHow The Psychopath Succeeds The success of the psychopath is both troubling and unerringly common. We see powerful men abuse their power more times than we can count. Lately, we have the Harvey Weinstein scandal and other high profile, powerful men. I hear one thing repeatedly in relation to psychopathic success. It’s: “I can’t believe he’s […]
Continue readingAre You An Empath Or A Psychopath? If you’re reading this right now, chances are you’re the Empath type. But what is that exactly? To answer that question, it’s useful to first consider the definition of a psychopath. The foremost authority on psychopaths is Dr Robert Hare, a Canadian psychologist who developed the now famous […]
Continue readingHow To Create Connection OnlineHow do you safely create connection online? If you’ve been bullied at work, it’s likely you’ll feel super-sensitive to the possibility of being abused again, especially online. The two most frequent complaints I hear from clients is that workplace bullying leaves them feeling: 1) Isolated and 2) Full of self-doubt Exacerbating this fear is […]
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