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Why I HATE S.M.A.R.T Goals
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(Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely)
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I don't know about you, but setting goals has NEVER worked for me!
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A while ago, I took an online course from an online influencer (he was one of the good ones! 😉 ) who used to talk about setting:
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1) Low-ball goals
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2) Stretch goals
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3) Hairy-scary goals
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🤩 The low-ball goal was the MINIMUM result you could achieve where you'd recoup your return on your time / investment.
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😯 The stretch goal was what you could "realistically" achieve.
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😵 And the hairy-scary goal was waaaaaaaay out of your comfort zone.
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The problem was, I've NEVER even made it half-way to ANY of my low-ball goals.
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I. JUST. CAN'T. MANAGE. IT.
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[Tears of frustration] Especially when I expect to hit the hairy-scary goal with EASE! (I'm pretty confident).
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Just this week I've worked out that just the word "goal" is like "gaol" (get it?).
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It causes me MASSIVE system shut down.
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What does work for me is INSPIRATION and INSPIRED ACTION.
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I tune into the metaphysical realm and I IMAGINE myself with the thing I'm going for.
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Then, I let it go. I let myself be guided by INTUITION in the best way I know how.
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I'm too much of a rebel, a creative type, a right-brain, magical thinking DIVA to cope with all that super-logical, intellectual BS (see, even just writing this gets me all fired up!)
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What about YOU, Empath Entrepreneurs? I'd LOVE to know more about what YOUR relationship to goals is!
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Why I HATE S.M.A.R.T Goals
.
(Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely)
.
I dont know about you, but setting goals has NEVER worked for me!
.
A while ago, I took an online course from an online influencer (he was one of the good ones! ;) ) who used to talk about setting:
.
1) Low-ball goals
.
2) Stretch goals
.
3) Hairy-scary goals
.
🤩 The low-ball goal was the MINIMUM result you could achieve where youd recoup your return on your time / investment.
.
😯 The stretch goal was what you could realistically achieve.
.
😵 And the hairy-scary goal was waaaaaaaay out of your comfort zone.
.
The problem was, Ive NEVER even made it half-way to ANY of my low-ball goals.
.
I. JUST. CANT. MANAGE. IT.
.
[Tears of frustration] Especially when I expect to hit the hairy-scary goal with EASE! (Im pretty confident).
.
Just this week Ive worked out that just the word goal is like gaol (get it?).
.
It causes me MASSIVE system shut down.
.
What does work for me is INSPIRATION and INSPIRED ACTION.
.
I tune into the metaphysical realm and I IMAGINE myself with the thing Im going for.
.
Then, I let it go. I let myself be guided by INTUITION in the best way I know how.
.
Im too much of a rebel, a creative type, a right-brain, magical thinking DIVA to cope with all that super-logical, intellectual BS (see, even just writing this gets me all fired up!)
.
What about YOU, Empath Entrepreneurs? Id LOVE to know more about what YOUR relationship to goals is!

SHY? MORE LIKE MUTE!
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When I was 19, I travelled around the world for a whole year.
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My journey was the most precious, blessed experience of my life.
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I visited France, China, Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia, Australia, New Zealand, Tahiti and the US.
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I paid for my (then) boyfriend to accompany me.
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BUT... I would not speak!
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I made my boyfriend do ALL the speaking for me, even while we were in France.
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Odd, considering I speak fluent French (I'm bilingual and French was my first language), and he couldn't.
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The truth is, I was shut down.
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I'd just survived a traumatic childhood where I watched my mother die from a slow, painful death of cancer over 7 long years (between the ages of 9 to 16).
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As if the dying wasn't bad enough, my mother also inflicted considerable cruelty on me.
.
It was like a pneumatic drill shuddering through my soul that I kept locked in the deepest dungeon of my being.
.
When I finally escaped, I was filled with joy. I also spent days curled up in a foetal position, with sobs so violent, my boyfriend was terrified I was going mad.
.
It wasn't until many years later that I finally understood my experience and had compassion for my own suffering.
.
I spent THOUSANDS of dollars on my personal development - nearly everything I earned.
.
I can tell you, it was money well spent.
.
It allowed me to finally FEEL empathy at the age of 28.
.
Over the years I've had GLIMPSES of genuine care and unconditional love.
.
From mentors who were only passing through in my life, though I'm very grateful for their care.
.
This year I've actually experienced CONSISTENT care for the first time.
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That's what GREAT COACHING is - someone genuinely, consistently, caring about YOU!
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It's a very strange, indescribable experience, because at the age of 55, I'd simply accepted the fact that it didn't exist (at least not for me).
.
I'm struck to observe that most people I meet also haven't experienced that level of deep caring.
.
Our world is all about making a quick buck. Or as my father used to so eloquently say: "Sod you, Jack, I'm alright!"
.
Great coaching changes EVERYTHING about your life: emotional, spiritual and financial.
.
If you're ready for that kind of PROFOUND transformation into the deepest FREEDOM you've ever experienced, let's talk.
.
I have ONE spot on my 1-1 coaching program and one of them should be YOURS.
.
To apply, click here:
bit.ly/2RwCycr
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SHY? MORE LIKE MUTE!
.
When I was 19, I travelled around the world for a whole year.
.
My journey was the most precious, blessed experience of my life.
.
I visited France, China, Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia, Australia, New Zealand, Tahiti and the US.
.
I paid for my (then) boyfriend to accompany me.
.
BUT... I would not speak!
.
I made my boyfriend do ALL the speaking for me, even while we were in France.
.
Odd, considering I speak fluent French (Im bilingual and French was my first language), and he couldnt.
.
The truth is, I was shut down.
.
Id just survived a traumatic childhood where I watched my mother die from a slow, painful death of cancer over 7 long years (between the ages of 9 to 16).
.
As if the dying wasnt bad enough, my mother also inflicted considerable cruelty on me.
.
It was like a pneumatic drill shuddering through my soul that I kept locked in the deepest dungeon of my being.
.
When I finally escaped, I was filled with joy. I also spent days curled up in a foetal position, with sobs so violent, my boyfriend was terrified I was going mad.
.
It wasnt until many years later that I finally understood my experience and had compassion for my own suffering.
.
I spent THOUSANDS of dollars on my personal development - nearly everything I earned.
.
I can tell you, it was money well spent.
.
It allowed me to finally FEEL empathy at the age of 28.
.
Over the years Ive had GLIMPSES of genuine care and unconditional love.
.
From mentors who were only passing through in my life, though Im very grateful for their care.
.
This year Ive actually experienced CONSISTENT care for the first time.
.
Thats what GREAT COACHING is - someone genuinely, consistently, caring about YOU!
.
Its a very strange, indescribable experience, because at the age of 55, Id simply accepted the fact that it didnt exist (at least not for me).
.
Im struck to observe that most people I meet also havent experienced that level of deep caring.
.
Our world is all about making a quick buck. Or as my father used to so eloquently say: Sod you, Jack, Im alright!
.
Great coaching changes EVERYTHING about your life: emotional, spiritual and financial.
.
If youre ready for that kind of PROFOUND transformation into the deepest FREEDOM youve ever experienced, lets talk.
.
I have ONE spot on my 1-1 coaching program and one of them should be YOURS.
.
To apply, click here:
http://bit.ly/2RwCycr
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